What to do if your child and their tutor are not a good fit

Give it a few lessons, then talk to your child and the tutor about what is not working. If the style or pace still does not suit, it is reasonable to try a different tutor. A good fit matters as much as qualifications.

Signs it is not working

Your child dreads or avoids lessons.
Homework is not getting easier.
The tutor’s style or pace does not suit how your child learns.

Talk to your child first

Ask what they like and dislike about the lessons. Their answer often points to something fixable.

Raise it with the tutor

Share what you have noticed, politely and specifically. Many tutors will happily adjust their approach.

Decide whether to move on

If little changes after a fair try, finding a different tutor is reasonable. Personality and teaching style matter as much as qualifications.

Make the next match better

Use a trial lesson, say clearly what went wrong last time, and agree a goal so you can judge the new tutor sooner.

Frequently asked questions

How long should I wait before changing tutor?

A few lessons is usually enough to judge the fit, unless there is a clear problem sooner.

How do I tell the tutor politely?

Be specific and kind, for example that your child would benefit from a slower pace or more practice questions.

Will changing tutor set my child back?

Not usually. A better match often helps more than staying with one that is not working.

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